Live Fully Alive
“The glory of God is man fully alive, and the life of man is the vision of God.”
St. Irenaeus (140–203 A.D.)
Each one of us, in some quiet moment, has had the sense that there must be more to life.. more purpose, more passion, more peace, more hope. You’ve experienced that longing because you were made for more. Living life to the full begins by returning to the origin of your Story, and becoming more aware of the One who created you. It’s in the revelation that you’ve been loved by Him since before your birth – right to this very moment – that your heart begins to awaken. You were made for this. You have a purpose here.
Soul Friend‘s mission is to help you live fully alive by offering pastoral care and spiritual direction via private individual sessions, facilitated group retreats, and guided group trips around the island of Ireland.
We Serve
Creatives / Pastors / Entrepreneurs
Anyone Who Is Hungry For More
Soul Friend operates as a non-profit (501c3) ministry department of A.C.T. International and is able to receive secure, tax deductible donations online to further our work of seeing people live fully alive.
There are times we need someone to walk alongside us to affirm our true identity, introduce alternative perspectives, and help us become more aware of God’s activity in our lives.
Together we can explore:
+ Fostering an awareness of God’s love for you
+ Walking in the power of the Holy Spirit
+ Deepening your friendship with Jesus
+ Gaining clarity on your life’s purpose
+ Discovering your unique gifts & passion
+ Creating a Rhythm of Life (priorities & practices)
+ Navigating life change (major & minor)
+ Finding a healthy life balance (motivation & fatigue)
+ Fostering healthy relationships
+ Exploring ancient Christian practices for growth
Sessions must be booked in sets of 3.
3, 6 or 9 Sessions @ 45 minutes each.
After 9 sessions, single sessions may be booked. Sessions may take place in person or online.
To inquire about pricing, scholarships or to book an initial FREE session, contact Shane below.
Shane’s been presenting to audiences in America, the UK and Ireland for 21 years. He’s delivered messages in front of teens, young adults and adults, tailoring talks to connect with people on various topics. His experience of living in Europe for 11 years prepared him to communicate with persons of disparate cultures, infusing authenticity, wit and truth in a sensitive and seasonable fashion.
Shane is passionate about seeing people live fully alive as they respond to Jesus’ call to ‘Walk with Me‘ (relationship) and ‘Work with Me‘ (vocation), specifically addressing how these are practiced in everyday life. He enjoys exploring the inter-relationship of the Arts, Faith and Culture, while inspiring Creatives to grow into their calling and make their mark on culture. While Shane often speaks to Christian audiences, he’s just as comfortable in front of those who are not.
To book Shane for a speaking engagement, or to facilitate a retreat, please express your interest below.
Life is an adventure about which it can always be said, ‘The best is yet to come.’ Within Christianity there’s a rich tradition of making journeys of spiritual significance. Traditionally, these were called pilgrimages. On pilgrimage you’ll visit historic Christian sites like Glendalough, Clonmacnoise, Armagh, Kells, Bangor, Ardfert, and Skellig Michael, while being immersed in the ancient stories of saints such as Patrick, Brendan, Brigit and Columcille. By considering their stories we’re better able to understand our own, and hopefully be inspired to invite the Author of Life to write His Great Story with our lives.
Shane coordinates public/private guided group trips, and self-guided trips with a personalized itinerary, around the island of Ireland. Each trip steeps you Irish culture, breath-taking landscapes and first-hand conversations with the people who make make Ireland what it is. Shane’s experience of living on the island for 11 years will prove to be invaluable as you’re introduced to aspects of Ireland you’d never know otherwise.
Contact Shane below to begin planning your adventure of a lifetime!
Rev. Canon Dr. Ashley Null“God gives artists special gifts as a sign of His great love for them. But, all too often, they grow up feeling they have to use those very gifts to prove to others, and even to themselves, that they are worthy of being loved. So what God intended to be a wonderful blessing usually turns out to be a constant burden. Shane Tucker understands this struggle. As an experienced pastor to Creatives, Shane knows how to help artists stop trying to earn love and instead to let God’s love flow through their gifts to reach a lonely and longing world.”
Melanie Clark Pullen“Shane Tucker is such an amazing facilitator of soul friendship. He has a way of connecting people that would otherwise not meet. He sees the heart of people, the need for deep connection and is able to link like-minds, like-souls together making our lives richer and our journeys less lonely.”
Carl von Hollen“Shane has been there for me when I was successful and most importantly when I wasn’t. After every meeting I have come away feeling as though I have (re)discovered something about myself, or (re)connected to parts of myself that had been missing. Shane has an amazing intuitive ability to help you get to the heart of whatever it is you are seeking help with. The support and help offered to me has been invaluable.”
Stella Rwabita“Shane is a man with a big heart and big soul that creatively and effortlessly engages with people from all walks of life. He’s a great relationship builder making one feel truly treasured, cherished and most valued. I’m honoured to grow in my faith and love for God as I watch him continually lay down his life before God and others.”
Rebecca C. Princehorn“Shane’s detailed itinerary and action plan helped us immeasurably! He listened to our goals for our trip, gauged our interests and suggested options and accommodations that fit us perfectly- truly making this a once-in-a-lifetime experience. No surprise that the hotel desk staff remarked ‘This guy knows Ireland!’”
Jeb Wilson“Shane Tucker was an invaluable resource on my recent two week journey to Ireland. Shane knew how to navigate the landscape very well and knew of several shortcuts and places to be seen off the beaten path. Shane’s vast knowledge of not only Ireland’s culture, but the geography, was unmatched by even the locals. I would highly recommend Shane as both a guide and a companion to any journey to the Emerald Isle.”
Discovering Your Rhythm of Life: Ancient Wisdom for Living the Good Life’
[ebook digital download]
Ever had a desire to change the world? I do every day. That desire, while far from being out of touch with reality, was placed in you for a purpose. We’re created to live life to the full in our relationships and the creative, collaborative, world-shaping mission we’re called to fulfill. However, so many of us live distracted, diminished lives with a persistent sense that there’s more to life than we’re experiencing. You’re not alone. Through an exploration of ancient wisdom and perennial truth, you and I can become more of who we were created to be and live life fully, from the heart.
(ebook contains original photography from the island of Ireland.)
[Re-release soon]
‘Fuel’, A Reflective Journal Helping You Recognize God’s Call On Your Life
[digital download]
In an effort to help people recognize Jesus’ call to ‘Walk with Me’ and ‘Work with Me’, I wrote a reflective journal called Fuel based upon the ancient practice of Lectio Divina. Fuel makes this time-tested Christian practice more accessible to new audiences. Lectio Divina helps you begin to recognize how the Lord is speaking to you right now, in this moment. Inside is a brief explanation of the process of Lectio Divina, a sample reading/responses section, thirty one identical sessions with seven questions leading you through the process of Lectio Divina and a blank space for unpacking (writing or drawing) time with God. At the end of the resource there is a brief section on the early Irish Christian notion of the ‘thin space’, and an encouragement to invite a spiritual director (or the equivalent) in one’s life. This resource will be re-released here in due time to encourage you as you journey with Jesus.
We know that, “..God created man[kind] in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” (Genesis 1:27). Therefore, every person, of every tribe, nation and tongue has intrinsic value, worth and dignity which no one can erase.
Frederick Douglass wrote, “The thing worse than rebellion is the thing that causes rebellion.” Repentance (change of mind/heart) is a double-sided coin.. a two stage process. Turning away from a previous practice, paradigm or pattern is not enough. Repentance also calls us to turn toward a new way of being which, in turn, brings..
No true-to-life story begins, or develops, without some kind of brokenness to heal, a battle to fight, or a situation in need of salvation. There have always been circumstances which create the need for resolution, restoration, and renewal.
Thank you for taking time to explore Soul Friend!
Whether you're interested in personal soul care sessions, retreat facilitation, or a guided group trip around the island of Ireland, I'd be more than happy to help. I look forward to hearing from you.